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Guilt Just Because

By Brian Gill

The statement I made. "Guilt just because." Should actually be written this way. "Guilt just 'be' cause." Not a big difference you may think but we are all the product of our guilt whether we see this or not but to get over it we must decide to be cause.

From the moment we start to hear words we become the effect of them on way or another. It is well known calling a child negative names is very bad but what is not so well known is the "guilt" parents place, unintentionally I am sure, but place none the less, solidly on their child's head.

Some ways in which this has been done;

I would still have my figure If not for you.
I would be rich if I didn't have to feed you kids.
Your brother wouldn't have got hurt if you were watching him like you were suppose to.
I could have a new car if I didn't have to pay for your education.
Parents of today may be saying things like;
We could have a bigger television if you didn't waste your food.
And so on...Piling on the unwarranted guilt on our babies.

I think you get the idea how the guilt is placed. I am sure you could come up with hundreds of things that have been said to you as a child that made you feel some guilt. The problem is not that we can think about our up bringing and remember the things our parents said to us that were negative and guilt inducing but it is the stuff we were told that we cannot now remember that actually has an effect on us today. This is because, if we cannot see it, then we are unable to change it.

This is why I say we need to be 'cause' over guilt. Try to remember how bad our life was because of some thoughtless comments uttered to our young ears and promise ourselves to not repeat the same mistakes with people we come into contact with, children or otherwise.

The future is what we make it.

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Contributed by Brian on March 29, 2009, at 12:31 PM UTC.

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